Arrangements

First dates with new friends start at £3000 for three hours. Everything beyond this is bespoke. I don’t charge extra for seeing couples. Payment by bank transfer is preferred. Cash or crypto attract a surcharge. 

If you’ve seen me three times in the previous three months, you’ll be eligible for a 25% discount on the next booking. This is to encourage ongoing entanglements with people I’ve got to know. This mirrors the most fulfilling kink relationships from my personal life and is something I’m keen to recreate as Adam.

Online Advice and Coaching

I have over 20 years of experience with BDSM, fetish, cuckolding, and kink. As Adam, I now offer in-depth written advice and coaching about these topics by email in return for a fee. I’m going to write some blogs over the next few months, dealing with individual topics so you can learn more about me and my experiences. These online exchanges are intended for people wanting to explore their inner desires (especially in respect of cuckolding, which is known as the most intellectual kink for good reasons), but aren’t ready or able to meet in person. They are also a way of having extended interactions with me before deciding whether or not you want to meet in real life.

Advice via email is £300 per 800-1000 word response.

I take bookings at 4-5* hotels in central London (or in professional dungeons if we need the equipment). If we’ve seen each other a few times and hit it off, then I’m open to meeting elsewhere.

All first bookings must be for at least three hours and start in a public place. Years of experience have shown me how important it is not to rush these first steps. If you’re a couple, I’ll need some time with each of you individually to make sure we’re all on the same page. As much as possible, our first meeting should begin like a normal first date. This gives us the chance to break the ice before moving onto more, ahem, involved activities.

I always take a deposit ahead of bookings- typically around a third of the total.

If you cancel at least 24 hours in advance you can put your deposit towards another date in the following 2 months. If you cancel with less than 24 hours notice the full balance will be due. No refunds will be made if I need to terminate the date due to you being unsafe or intoxicated.

Gifting and tips are an important part of the provider-client relationship. There are four main points to send a gift or a tip: when you first make contact so that your message stands out from the timewasters; ahead of a date to help us prepare; after a successful date; and as part of an ongoing arrangement. Don’t be shy! 

Gifts

I’ve thought carefully about the things on my wishlist, so it gives you the best insight into my personality.

My preferred way of receiving gifts is via this Throne website. I don’t always accept physical gifts in person, so best to check first. You can’t go wrong by sending extra money or crypto in advance, or giving a tip after a great date.